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I can see that. I guess I just felt more comraderie with Carrie's character than her other friends, and it seemed like a pretty toxic relationship for all three. It felt anticlimactic for the resolution to be "well, we've been friends too long to expect our dynamics or personalities to change."Listen to what Carrie Coons says in her reconciliation speech again. As much as I hate saying things like this, one might have to be a woman to understand what a confession of deep friendship and love that speech was. Mike White probably had some help from Carrie Coons writing it.
I have a few spectacular friends from my early days and I am very thankful for them. But we are more supportive and kind to one another without the constant talking behind one another's back. I would absolutely not describe that as "normal" or some gendered experience, but I also recognize I am extremely fortunate for these relationships.
I guess I was hoping for a more storybook resolution or a big realization on the parts of one or more individuals. Laurie's speech was sincere and heartfelt and maybe more realistic than her saying "oh God you are rhe same people you were in high school when we were stealing BFs and concerned with our appearances, why can't mature?"
I found is a bit depressing. Or maybe I'm nor reading it properly. But to me there's more to a friendship than just elapsed time spent together.