I apologize for my tone.
It seems to me that the whole country could use to tone down the immediate leaping to the worst possible conclusions and firing back with both barrels at every perceived wrong. I was trying to imagine the best intentions in one of our fellow posters, and I thought that if his post were interpreted differently we might all be able to get a long a little better. So I was presumptuous enough to jump in with what was meant as a softening, not a further provocation.
Apparently, I failed miserably. But my intention was merely to imagine that his statement was not intended to stir things up. My judgment might well be suspect, but the idea behind my post was an attempt to not assume the worst of a fellow poster and to try to avoid leaping straight into outrage. Sadly, what I see in the world around me right now is very commonly a leap into outrage followed by a hostile response. I was taught by one of my mentors a long time ago to imagine to myself 'what is the most benign possible interpretation' of somebody else's words and/or actions. After thinking it through from that lens, if it is impossible to imagine anything other than one's original thought, go from there to inquire or make a statement.
Using that idea, there was another way to interpret 'he lies, she lies,' or at least it seemed to me there was. That was all I was saying. You are probably right that I shouldn't have inserted myself into the conversation at all.
And again I apologize for the tone. On reading it again I can see how it seems condescending. That was not my intent. I don't look down on anybody who has posted in this thread. I hold all of you in high regard and value your point of view.