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    Which is more true to your honest feelings

    a) Duke beat UNC and Duke fans are very happy.

    b) UNC lost to Duke and UNC fans are really unhappy.


    I think for me it should be a but I think is is really b.

    SoCal

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    For me, the down from losing is stronger than the high from winning. At least regular season.

    That may not speak well about me, but that’s the honest answer.

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    A.

    Glass half full kinda person.

    It makes me extremely happy when we beat them and I focus on our win and how proud we should be rather than those toxic lunatics down the road.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CameronDuke View Post
    A.

    Glass half full kinda person.
    It makes me extremely happy when we beat them and I focus on our win and how proud we should be rather than those toxic lunatics down the road.
    I kinda get the Glass half full comparison generally.
    My POV is, the glass doesn't matter so much, if you are thirsty open another bottle.

    But as it relates to the topic -
    Any Duke win is happiness.
    Any UNC loss is happiness -1.
    A Duke win over UNC is a full glass.

    I wont lie, I enjoy having UNC fans being envious of the full glass. They are so thirsty.
    Take a sip, spill a little just for spite.

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    "I wont lie, I enjoy having UNC fans being envious of the full glass. They are so thirsty.
    Take a sip, spill a little just for spite."

    Love it, well done !

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    Quote Originally Posted by wilko View Post
    I kinda get the Glass half full comparison generally.
    My POV is, the glass doesn't matter so much, if you are thirsty open another bottle.

    But as it relates to the topic -
    Any Duke win is happiness.
    Any UNC loss is happiness -1.
    A Duke win over UNC is a full glass.


    I wont lie, I enjoy having UNC fans being envious of the full glass. They are so thirsty.
    Take a sip, spill a little just for spite.

    Is that College Basketball Haiku?

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    Quote Originally Posted by OldPhiKap View Post
    For me, the down from losing is stronger than the high from winning. At least regular season.

    That may not speak well about me, but that’s the honest answer.
    Loss aversion bias. It's pretty common.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OldPhiKap View Post
    For me, the down from losing is stronger than the high from winning. At least regular season.

    That may not speak well about me, but that’s the honest answer.
    Yup. Same.

    I’m happy now. Very happy last night.

    If we lost, I’d be pissed last night, and pissed off today.

    After the FF, I was upset for a week…
    Criticism may not be agreeable, but it is necessary. It fulfils the same function as pain in the human body. It calls attention to an unhealthy state of things. - Winston Churchill

    President of the "Nolan Smith Should Have His Jersey in The Rafters" Club

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    Quote Originally Posted by OldPhiKap View Post
    For me, the down from losing is stronger than the high from winning. At least regular season.

    That may not speak well about me, but that’s the honest answer.
    This wasn't the question, though. This question was asking whether, after a result like last night, do you first think, a) "Yay, Duke won! We get to be happy!!", or b) "Yay, those cheating SOBs lost! I'm so glad their fans are in agony!"

    For me, it's a), and it is not close. I almost never take pleasure in someone else's pain, even if that person is a lying, cheating, low-down waste of humanity. Honestly, after most Duke wins, I don't even think about the fans down in Chapel Hell at all, unless the television crew chooses to film their slack-jawed disbelief.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phredd3 View Post
    This wasn't the question, though. This question was asking whether, after a result like last night, do you first think, a) "Yay, Duke won! We get to be happy!!", or b) "Yay, those cheating SOBs lost! I'm so glad their fans are in agony!"

    For me, it's a), and it is not close. I almost never take pleasure in someone else's pain, even if that person is a lying, cheating, low-down waste of humanity. Honestly, after most Duke wins, I don't even think about the fans down in Chapel Hell at all, unless the television crew chooses to film their slack-jawed disbelief.
    I feel them both at the same time. It’s not a binary jolt of euphoria for me. Just a lovely gumbo of ecstasy.

    (btw, I’m naming my next band “Gumbo of Ecstasy” if not already taken).

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    Quote Originally Posted by OldPhiKap View Post
    I feel them both at the same time. It’s not a binary jolt of euphoria for me. Just a lovely gumbo of ecstasy.

    (btw, I’m naming my next band “Gumbo of Ecstasy” if not already taken).
    I believe that name is trademarked by an adult film company in Louisiana. Don't ask, I won't tell.

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    While for me it is mostly “A”, I felt a little bit of “B” last night leaving Cameron when I passed that security guard who, before the game, was asking everyone who walked by to yell “go Tar Heels”.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SoCalDukeFan View Post
    a) Duke beat UNC and Duke fans are very happy.

    b) UNC lost to Duke and UNC fans are really unhappy.


    I think for me it should be a but I think is is really b.

    SoCal
    A) strikes me as being more aspirational: a well-earned victory, but hopefully a stepping stone on the way to greater achievements.
    B) B is fear-driven, for long-time fans particularly, a dying and irrational fear that lingers from a time when UNC's hegemony was rarely challenged, a vestige of "Dean Psychosis" if you will. No one gets under our skin the way UNC fans do, to no rational explanation aside from the fact that they are insufferable bowel portals.

    When K came into the league he reset standards of achievement which helped put the UNC game into a better perspective. March became his primary obsession, not beating UNC. 7 Final Fours in 9 years is a strong indication that for K and his teams "UNC was just another game." While that never really became accepted orthodoxy, beating UNC still ranks as a highlight of the season, any season, you don't often get far in any pursuit if you are driven solely by a fear of failure. I would so much like A to be true, but yeah B is usually operative in my brain a good measure of the time. Even in the context of sports rivalries, I'm this concerned about what UNC fans feel? Really?

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    I know not what course others may take; but as for me, give me liberty, or give me death!
    Always A. I never care how they feel.

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    Usually A for me. There are a couple noteworthy exceptions. Last night was A 100%.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reddevil View Post
    Always A. I never care how they feel.
    Yeah, let's not get too oogly about it. Roach winking at Love at the end of game said it all for me. Last year was a new low but this game helped heal a bit of the heartbreak. A bit.
    Nothing incites bodily violence quicker than a Duke fan turning in your direction and saying 'scoreboard.'

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    That's a tough question.
    I think mostly A now, I am retired, so no longer have the daily contact with the ugly blue peoples. Five yeas ago, while working and
    that daily contact it would have been am B+

  18. #18
    Quote Originally Posted by Reddevil View Post
    Always A. I never care how they feel.
    Same for me... "A". GTHC... feel what they want... I don't care.

  19. #19
    Way happier that we won.

    As a native North Carolinian, I’d like to take some small satisfaction in my home state’s flagship public university’s sports successes. But Tar Heel fans are so obnoxious and I’m surrounded by them, so there’s at least some satisfaction in having them STFU, although their incessant caterwauling when they lose is almost worse than their gloating wins.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DevilYouKnow View Post
    Way happier that we won.

    As a native North Carolinian, I’d like to take some small satisfaction in my home state’s flagship public university’s sports successes. But Tar Heel fans are so obnoxious and I’m surrounded by them, so there’s at least some satisfaction in having them STFU, although their incessant caterwauling when they lose is almost worse than their gloating wins.
    I'm very happy whenever the Cheats lose because of the fans and the way the so-called university needed to cheat to even be in the game against good teams. I can't prove it, but I'm pretty sure they've aways cheated.


    GoDuke!

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