So, over on the EK board, in the This Week in the ACC thread, there is a discussion about the Carolina fans flocking into the streets after beating Duke. I came out as bitterly disappointed in Julian King for his front page article on the DBR that sorta said, "it is ok that thousands of UNC students just spread the disease all over the place because it was cute to see college kids having fun." I won't rehash here how terrible I found that column to be. You can
read my comments in the other thread.
But, I wanted to quote this response and have a conversation here about a different topic:
There is something that has been really bugging me lately about vaccine distribution. If you want to lie, you can get a vaccine. If you merely say that you are caring for an older person in your home, they will put you in group 1A in most states. You need not offer any proof that you have anyone in your household.
I know a local elected government official (local office, not that big a deal) who said he and other elected officials were offered the vaccine and were told to mark that they were part of the city's public safety department so they would qualify. My friend was disgusted and refused to take the vaccine out of turn... which made him the only elected official to refuse it.
I have another couple who are friends who are conservatives and they were pretty skeptical of the disease. They were not really into mask wearing, they were convinced that hydroxichloroquine would save them, and they often said it really seemed like it was just a bad flu. Over the weekend they revealed that they had gotten vaccine shots from their brother, who is a doctor (a dermatologist). He's the one who told them that the Hydrox would save them if they caught Covid.
I bring up all this, as connected to the above quoted post by my sweet smelling cakey friend, because it is really, really, really hard to do the right thing during these times. The vaccine is key to us resuming a somewhat normal life and it is soooo tempting to figure out a way to skip the line. I know I could if I wanted to. But,
I also know that doing so would deny someone more needy than me from getting it. Now, more than ever, we are at a point where society needs to work together to do the right thing. And yet we all know many, many, many of our fellow citizens are only out for themselves. We know that many of the people who live in our community are cheating and getting ahead of us in line... which makes it even harder to wait because it means our wait is longer than it should be.
I don't really know the point of this note other than to say, as hard as it is, I am trying to do the right thing. I hope all of you are as well. As for my friends who ignored this pandemic and then skipped ahead of others because they live in a family that believes it is more important than everyone else, I'm not sure I can be friends with them any longer. It really hurts me because I really, really like them. My wife and I took a 2 week Mediterranean cruise with this couple in fall of 2019 and had the most delightful time. Our kids are the same age and are very close. But I'm not sure I can look at them and not feel anger and disgust. I have always considered them kind and the very opposite of selfish... but now that has all changed and I hate Covid for causing me to feel this way about some dear friends.
-Jason "and yet, if someone offered me the vaccine right now... would I really turn them down? I don't know... I just don't know... goddamn this... sigh" Evans