Originally Posted by
CrazyNotCrazie
My wife has a top tier MBA and worked at a large investment bank for 10+ years and has zero understanding of personal finance. Fortunately she has been good about her 401k, but that is about it. For instance, she would consistently keep credit card balances despite having more than enough liquid funds to pay them off. My understanding of personal finance is well above average though definitely has holes, and I am generally good about knowing what I don't know.
The flip side of that is that my wife is equally horrified by my lack of medical knowledge - when a doctor talks to me it is like the teacher from Charlie Brown, and I don't have any natural curiosity about the topic (hence why I didn't go pre-med despite A's in Dr. Bonk's Intro to Chem classes). However, I again recognize my deficiency in this area and the importance of good decision making so either take a lot of notes or bring my wife to important appointments to make sure I'm not missing anything.
So I guess we all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, as others have noted, there are so many resources out there to get good advice on personal finance. So even if you are not good at it and have no interest, it isn't that hard to do a few minutes of research, ask knowledgeable friends for their thoughts, and get someone good to help you who won't charge a fortune for that. Showing people the charts displaying the impact of compounding and how much they are giving up long term by not saving and/or paying high fees should get the point across, but it doesn't always work.
lol I really feel this. My sisters are horrified with my lack of knowledge on medical anything and basically control all of that including getting the results for me. Heck they even schedule most of my visits for me. Yet when it comes to budgeting and personal finance it’s flipped.
I also am appalled at their lack of historical and geographical knowledge but as you say, know your own weaknesses/ strengths.
For context my youngest sister didn’t know much of our southwest was once Mexico. This came about while looking at a map of So Cal and she wondered why so much of the cities were Hispanic sounding.
"The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge" -Stephen Hawking