Originally Posted by
gumbomoop
Yes, a powerful, mythic narrative.
I'm interested in, but uncertain about, why you think it impermissible to discuss the powerful hold of this myth. Do you mean impermissible on DBR because of PPB problems? Or impermissible because such a discussion with or about folks who hold to this myth quickly degenerates into name-calling and even bridge-burning?
I'm not trying to egg you on, and I've no right to be disappointed if you prefer to let your statement stand as is.
But for me, it's not impermissible to discuss the power of the myth here. Possibly I've already overstepped some bounds, but I hope not, and think not. Indeed, in my original post over on the "What are you reading?" thread, I opined that the uncomplicated explanation is that many Southerners are simply, obviously, and understandably embarrassed that somehow their forebears countenanced slavery, perhaps owned slaves. Moderns prefer to distance family histories from slavery, and need to see forebears as honorably defending their homeland from Yankee invaders, their states from federal, intrusive centralizers. Rather than dishonorably defending an inhumane institution.
At the simplest level, this "embarrassment factor" goes a good way in explaining why, as you say, "The myth of states rights as the basis for secession remains a strong narrative in southern culture."
Now, I'd be interested in "thinking aloud" with you and anyone else about myth-believing friends and family. How would they react to being told that while their distaste for slavery is altogether admirable, they must understand the straightforward, non-controversial fact that 19th-century Southerners were not embarrassed by an institution they thought "the natural condition" of black slaves. Discussing this 19th-century Southern reality isn't to excuse it, but just to acknowledge it, and so contrast it with our admirable-enough disgust at human bondage.
But ... If by "we all know why" you mean something different -- that it's less the "embarrassment factor" than something much harder, i.e., racism -- then, ok, calling out friends and family as racists is difficult almost beyond imagining.