Code Red air quality warning here in NC. two days ago, it wasn't supposed to affect us much. Things turned ugly fast. Hoping rain this evening will help but it is very hazy here right now.
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Code Red air quality warning here in NC. two days ago, it wasn't supposed to affect us much. Things turned ugly fast. Hoping rain this evening will help but it is very hazy here right now.
At urgent care to get a tick bite that’s doing some funky things checked out.
Hmmm, opening night for my latest outdoor Shakespeare endeavor is Friday night. It's probably going to be rained out, but smoked out? Hope not. So far, we don't smell the campfire around here and the local Air Quality rank is "good".
In a bizarre story of a person who has an almost identical DNA signature to me--my sister sustained 11 ticks bites over the course of Spring and Summer 2022, which is clearly nuts. When she was admitted to the Hospital in late September, her docs had a very difficult time arriving at a diagnosis and her condition steadily worsened. They kept shoving doxycycline into her which ultimately saved her life, while they tried to sort out the symptomology. Turns out she had concurrent infections of Babesiosis, Ehrlichiosis along with remants of RMSF. For whatever reason they had a hard time identifying Babesiosis, which presents flu-like symptoms but no rash. For a hot minute they considered a Covid variant, discharged her only to have her readmit herself 2 days later.
No, she doesn't live in a broken down mobile home in Appalachia, she's quite well-off and, my siblings and I had assumed, intelligent, yeah, despite evidence to the contrary. But she brings in mulch by the truckload and insists on spreading it herself. She had to have her entire home sanitized and inspected by the appropriate authority and now hires a landscaping crew to do most of the around-the-house stuff.
Oh. But we are all sure you are fine Bundabergdevil.
I am not the outdoor type and I don't garden. The most outdoorsy thing I do is Shakespeare in the Park. The parks are in Cambridge, Massachusetts. There might be ticks in them, but I highly doubt it - no deer are ever in these parks. Some people do walk their dogs in them though, so ticks could presumably be brought in by the dogs.
The tick that gave my friend Alpha Gal lived on Martha's Vineyard. I will not do outdoor Shakespeare on Martha's Vineyard.
Interesting map for the smoke regions.
https://fire.airnow.gov/
We have smoke influence here in CA almost every year, but not until later in the summer.
as someone who spreads seven yards of mulch each Spring by hand, this is a bit concerning, though I have never seen a tick while mulching...always a concern here.
My vet has told me over the years that ticks carry a plethora of odd diseases, and are suspected of carrying many more, which is why it's good to inspect oneself around here, and to treat the pets for ticks as well...
Septic Man came and went, no encounters with Turdzilla though he did leave with 1000 gallons of our very best output, and he installed the coveted riser, so it's drinks all around up here.
Why was he wearing a tux that early in the morning?
AQI 233 here
If you are not a lawyer it is imperative that you type that out and not use an unapproved abbreviation.
So, I was going to take Monday through Wednesday of next week off from work, travel, and see my parents.. Now there is a meeting that I can't miss, that a leader a couple layers up rearranged their calendar for and I will have the primary speaking role.
1) Yes, they did not consult my calendar
2) What should I do?
I'll actually be meeting them in Nevada for the day, so neutral territory. They make the trip up a couple times a year because they like to gamble. They had planned their trip and then told me when they were going. But I did say to them, "let me know the next time you are going and I'll meet you up there".
Complicating factor, this would now force me to take my work laptop and videoconference from a casino hotel. It would be super early in the morning.
Unfortunately, we don't do presentations. I like them. We do document reads and then discuss. Occasionally, we will have a PPT handy that more visually covers the same material, but it depends on the leader. Some are known to prefer PPT but follow the company line of doing the document read first. I hate writing. It is painful for me. Given enough time, I can produce high quality written documents, at least as judged by the CEO of a Fortune 100 company. But in these scenarios, there isn't enough time...
Well. I just quit my job.
It's Opening Night for Twelfth Night and I just called it. We a cancelled due to rain and the chance of thunderstorms.
Fingers crossed for tomorrow. Sunday looks beautiful.
Good luck on your next steps! I've been contemplating the very same thing. I'm think I'm in a similar situation at my work; absolutely miserable whenever a particular co-worker is involved on my projects. A ticking time bomb. This Tuesday was one such episode. I've had the conversation with my boss and I hear things are happening, but it can't be soon enough. This along with next Tuesday's vacation snafu is leaving a very bad taste.
The last time I've had more than a week off was when I left the company I worked for and moved here to Szn Antonio. I really could use a nice long break.
How you doing Clem? Seems like you’ve had a lot of big time change in your life this past year. Wishing you well.
80s Top 40 and for the moment all is okay.
Early to mid not the hair band stuff.
I'm going with the odd sounding Congratulations, CD. The next place will be lucky to have you.
Enjoy your time with your parents, YmoBeThere.
I don't know your age or point in your career, but I've had to do this a couple of times over the years and I think it's paid off in showing that I'm loyal. And, to be honest, weighing the pros and cons of taking a few hours for an important work call during vacation vs. possibly dealing with the fallout for missing it, it's really no comparison. I've been with my company for 22 years now and I know if/when it suits them they will let me go (with a package). That's just the way corporate America is these days.
But I'm like you, unless my manager said she'd cover or it's no big deal if I miss the meeting, then I too would choose to attend rather than make a big deal about it. But I'd also make sure my manager knew that I was a team player doing the right thing by her. Frankly, anyone above her probably wouldn't care that it inconvenienced me, but she's the one who has to put in for my pay raises and promotions.
When I first started in corporate America, a good friend gave me this advice: "The only person who you should care what they think about you is your manager." I try to live by that and it's served me well over the years.
Probably mentioned this before, but I was working in grant-based research for a doctor who decided he did not want to put in for more funding. Because funding was down all over, nothing else to move over to, so I was out of work for 13 months. I refer to it on my resume as my "gap year". I interviewed for several positions that I am glad I did not get. Took a job for 11 months that was not exactly what I wanted but I learned a LOT and it was a big help in getting my current job. Which I may very well keep until I retire.
Mariachis at 9 PM!
Best of luck to Clemmons. Take no more of their gas! Now back to wedding festivities. There are signs that the chicks adore 🥰 me!
Getting ready for a high school graduation - great-niece Charlotte
Robin Hood and Little John running through the forest.
Rich,
Thanks for your thoughts. I'm 52(a few years behind you I believe) and have been at this company for a year. Careerwise, I've been at a string of Fortune 100 companies with both people leadership and individual contributor roles. My current and the last couple prior roles have been as an IC. I've favored those roles lately as I've found it easier to leave my job at work. For the first couple of decades, I was probably overly accommodating with my time from a work-life balance to the detriment of my personal life. No one to blame but myself. So, I'm trying to adjust that balance.
Two things influenced my thinking(old me would have said whining), lack of vacation time and compensation. Because we are a retailer disguised as a tech company, we have very retailer oriented HR policies. In other words, I get little to no vacation in the first year. I took no vacation calendar year 2022; I lost three days of time off to Covid caught while on a work trip. I don't recommend that scenario by the way. I'll take maybe 8 days off this year, 2 in Feb., 3 for this trip in June, and one each around July 4th, Thanksgiving and Christmas. So, this was my real vacation for the year. Five days away to relax and recharge. And while I know it is only a few hours, it likely includes a couple on Monday to tweak meeting materials, a bit before the meeting on Tuesday, the actual meeting on Tuesday, and then some gameplanning based on decisions made Tuesday. Not to mention having to carry all my work stuff with me. All minor inconveniences I know, but this all leads down a slippery slope when trying to shift the balance from work to life.
Compensation is an interesting thing, in theory I am capped out. Basically, you negotiate your comp for the first four years prior to starting. They may make small adjustments to your base based on performance(and I got one), but there isn't much more incentive that can be offered except at a few levels up. And given that we are in cost cutting mode, I hear those were nonexistent this cycle.
All this to say, yes I'll be on the call and do the prep work and post work. At some point I have to say no; that time isn't here yet.
Okay, almost time to travel.
I’ll do a few acrobatics in exceptional circumstances but I’ve found in corporate America there are very few true emergencies that cannot wait.
I’m also of the mind that I might not take the next promotion (were it to be offered) because it would bump me into a level where I typically see people constantly plugged in and I just don’t wanna.
So, like, OPK is a narc now.
Hey Clem - that article that you posted in the other thread refers to "Raleigh's Research Triangle Park". 75% of the RTP is in DURHAM County. RTP does not belong to Raleigh.
When the geographically challenged who fly in and out of RDU assume the R and the D are interchangeable, no true Durham native lets that misconception lie. Durham is NOT Raleigh. They share an airport and not much else. (OK, maybe they share the RTP, but not really. ;) )
Yes, I read the Prez thread today.
Today's discussion of juries reminded me to recommend the Amazon Prime show "Jury Duty". Did I do that already? That show managed to be hilarious and restore my faith in human nature at the same time!
In an effort to stay on OPK's good side I would like to inform you all that those stories about the honeymoon were actually about me.
Twelfth Night opened yesterday under sunny skies with slightly damp ground.
It started raining 3/4ths of the way through the last Act. We went ahead and finished.
Does anyone know who gives the last speech in Twelfth Night and what they say? I'll paste the text of the final speech a bit later.
Oh - our Malvolio's chronic pain condition flared up, badly, so our understudy went on. She is also in the show as Fabian - so her understudy went on too, which left us with no Priest. The Priest appears in two scenes near the end and has one speech. I learned that one speech backstage during the show and went on as the Priest. Also, the actors got an entrance wrong and skipped a crucial scene. I worked out how to get the missing scene back in and communicated it to everyone involved while I was putting on the Priest's costume. Fixing things on the fly however, required our Olivia to manage a costume change in about 30 seconds. Done.
When green room conversation turns to Humorous and or Horrific Theater Stories, actors will tell tales of this performance for the rest of their lives. My advice to the actors who blew the order of the scenes? "Be a goldfish."
Twelfth Night ends with a song, sung by Feste the jester.
When that I was and a little tiny boy,
With hey, ho, the wind and the rain,
A foolish thing was but a toy,
For the rain it raineth every day.
But when I came to man's estate,
With hey, ho, & c.
'Gainst knaves and thieves men shut their gate,
For the rain, & c.
But when I came, alas! to wive,
With hey, ho, & c.
By swaggering could I never thrive,
For the rain, & c.
But when I came unto my beds,
With hey, ho, & c.
With toss-pots still had drunken heads,
For the rain, & c.
A great while ago the world begun,
With hey, ho, & c.
But that's all one, our play is done,
And we'll strive to please you every day.
"& c." stands for either "the wind and the rain" or "it raineth every day".
The whole cast joins in on the "hey, ho, the wind and the rain" chorus. Yesterday, the audience did too.
Flight delays…
Congratulations, BD! Impressive amount of adjusting on the fly and getting everyone to follow along. The cast you put together was a good one.
Thanks, DinK!
Poster HouseP came to the show yesterday! Nice to meet another DBR denizen IRL.
Here is my "it's a small world" moment from this weekend. I opened FB on Sunday to see a post by someone I went to school with in Korea posting about her granddaughter's graduation on Saturday night. The program looked very familiar - I was at the same graduation for Great-niece Charlotte. Wish I had run into Lori at the graduation - that would have made the world even smaller.
Having done theater in high school and helped start a new troupe of sorts at Duke, don’t disagree. I do think similar dynamics and skills can be learned in team sports under the right conditions.
Both can also teach you how dysfunctional a team can be under the wrong conditions, too!
I learned a lot about drop bears in Australia. Now I don’t sleep very well, and the Vegemite is causing a rash behind my ears.
Oh, and your old friend Bundy R. Bear:
https://youtu.be/sVBiuRp1oiA
Wait! OPK is a mod now? The following is a test of his tolerance for opposing viewpoints:
Crunchy peanut butter is for sissies, and should only be served in prisons as the ultimate punishment.
(It’s been nice knowing y’all. Take care.)
Add this to your correlation is not causation files.
Where YBT goes, championships follow…
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Also seen in Vegas…
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Slow news day...
Part of it is that the exciting news days are so exciting. Makes the regular news days seem milk toast.
Saw a dude at Starbucks rocking a "Pine tar incident 1983" t shirt. Anyone on here get the reference?
George Brett. KC Royals. I played 3rd base as a kid, he was the best.
I said something to him about wanting to storm out of the dugout because his shirt made me so angry. He said I was the first person to get the reference in the two days he has worn that shirt. I'm not sure if it's good or bad, but it definitely says something about me.
I met Don Quixote and told him I was a huge fan. He was not amused.
Since "starving children in Africa" came up in the NBA thread, it reminded me of a date I recently had.
I was out with a young woman from Nairobi strolling around NYC enjoying the weather when we decided to get frozen yogurt. She couldn't finish hers so she gave it to me. I told her I already ate mine and wasn't in the mood for more. She responded with a sly grin, "Don't you know there are starving children back home?" That made me laugh out loud.
She also told me that her mother used to say to her when she didn't finish her portions, "Don't you know there are starving children in the next town?"
Same! Also, I must be really old- the only acknowledgment I got for a Sid Bream slide joke over in the “What we look like thread” was a comment about the “obscure reference.” Is it really that obscure?? It’s the first and just about the only thing I think of when I hear or read his name.
Got told I was getting a promotion today. Was wondering, my boss is on 6 month leave and I’ve taken on all the duties. Will be interesting when they’re supposed to come back in the Fall.
Me as well. Defenestration the old regime.
So, I guess '78 was a pretty good year for musical debuts.
Speaking of jobs - the Drewsk has two interviews next week. One potential employer requested an in person meeting next Friday in Boulder, Colorado.
Correct. I have applied for one job and it would be with a company where I have lots of friends and it would be a very high level management position. It would probably be about a 50k per year pay raise. This is a company that has recruited me before. But because it's such a high-powered job, there will be a lot of competition. If I don't get this I would consider a career change. I don't want to take a crappy job. In reality I only have about another decade where I absolutely have to work.
very bust of luck to our various job and promotion seekers, hoping for good things!
been there, done that. It's a minefield...on several occasions I had great interviews but ran afoul of insecure people who feared I was coming after THEIR job (which I wasn't) but insecurity knows no bounds.
Bought a new TV. Should be here in a week.
We are sooooooo helpful. You're welcome Bundabergdevil.
This is what I bought a 65" LG OLED:
https://electronics.woot.com/offers/..._cat_elec_5_17
Highly rated but last year's model. I'm upsizing from a 55" LG 4k TV that is a few years old. I'm limited in the size of TV by two things, the size of the room and the wall mount is a decade old and can only hold so much weight. (First TV when I moved in was 47", I upsized to a 55" 4k TV about 4 years ago.)
I do pay for Amazon Prime, so shipping was free.
Y’all crack me up.
Tonight's curtain speech contained the instructions - if it only sprinkles, we will continue. If it starts pouring, we will stop. We didn't have to stop, but we got a little damp in Act IV.