Thanks for the update, UD! Despite the stress, which I'm sure sucks on a daily level, you will one day look back on this year and remember what an amazing time of your life it was. So many possibilities, so many things to look forward to!
As for your three primary tasks, the DBR OT nation can likely help you with 2 of them (graduating? you're on your own... unless there's a subject area with which you're struggling.)
What's your area of interest for your next job? What area of the country will you be targetting? Need someone to review a resume?
For wedding planning, this could get fun! (It's a long offseason.) I sense polls on what's better, chocolate cake vs. lemon/raspberry-filled; which dress (she might have to post that poll); top 5 songs that should be banned from the reception; best wedding favors ever received. You get kudos from the future Mrs. UgaDevil for taking an active interest, and we get entertaining threads.