Originally Posted by
JasonEvans
Lastly, as a side note (and I don't mean to sound flippant about a very serious issue) what is it about Common Ground that it attracts women who have been sexually assaulted by Rasheed?!?! Common Ground takes 56 kids per semester -- out of 6000 at Duke -- and they happened to pick a woman who was assaulted by Sheed twice?!?! It makes one wonder if there are a lot more women on campus who may have been assaulted by him who have not had an open forum opportunity to speak about it. Shudder...
I have been on Common Ground. There are a few notes I can clarify.
1) In order to create a "safe space" for sharing, the leaders make clear that the participants should keep all shared experiences private. If the allegations were made public by people other than the alleged victims, it would be frowned upon. CG emphasizes that personal experiences are only the individual's to share.
2) The CG application asks for a story of personal struggle, so I find it likely that the CG committee saw the Sheed stories as a chance to spark dialogue on the retreat. CG participants are chosen in order to make a diverse group, but also to create tough, personal conversations. There is no reason to assume that the proportion of women who spoke of Sheed on CG is representative of the overall Duke population.
3) CG attracts people who have been assaulted in general because it is a safe space to have that discussion without fear of repercussions/backlash. I'd say if the ones who shared their stories in confidence didn't spread the allegations, then the Chronicle, as well as the "friends" who spread it, are causing more harm than good.
Tent 1 Three-peat (2012-2014)