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Reilly
A friend of mine from Duke was the best man at his brother's wedding. The bride had strong Irish roots ("Mc-something"; red hair; Notre Dame). My friend prefaced his toast mentioning having researched various Irish toasts "and boy are there a lot of them ..." He actually caught flak from the bride's uptight sister for that little line: alcoholism is a disease, yada yada (mind you, none of the family there were drunks that I knew of). My friend later appealed to me to attest to his character (I was there; my grandparents had immigrated from Ireland) but I was too lit to be of help.
This seems like a ridiculous objection on its face. "Irish pubs" are famous world-wide as places for conviviality. I remember a good one in Taormina, Sicily. Bartenders are either exported from Ireland or recruited locally with some of the famous welcoming attributes. There is even some behavioral science on the features: darts promote social behavior; pinball is antisocial. Now, some Irish-American family is objecting to someone mentioning that "there are a lot of Irish toasts?" What tha'!
Sage Grouse
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