'agree with your main point Throaty -- it's kinda like the Terpers who complain that a single call in the last 20 seconds "cost us the game" (while ignoring the preceding 100 calls during the previous 39:40, many of which were close and went the other way). But in the case of 2004, I was actually there in San Antonio. I remember a LOT of the discussion prior to that FF being that, in effect, the Duke-vs.-U-con game was for the championship, and whoever won the other game (GT vs OKSU) should get steamrolled by either Duke or U-con. That doesn't make it a feit accompli, but GT was something like a 10 point underdog to U-con in the finals, and would have been similar vs Duke.
http://www.usatoday.com/sports/score...UKE------0.htm Duke gave U-con a MUCH better game, going down to a final possession, while GT unfortunately did get steamrolled by U-con. (Yes, the final score looks closer, but only b/c GT hit a bunch of buckets late - I think they made a bunch of 3's - in the last 8 minutes, but it really wasn't as the 9 point margin appears. They were down 20 with about 10 minutes to go.
http://espn.go.com/ncb/recap?gameId=244000063 ) But yeah, Okafor actually did sit out much of the latter stages of the first half with 2 fouls, as Duke expanded its lead, but not enough. I remember sitting there thinking "We need to take advantage of this opportunity more while he's out. Okafor had a tremendous second half, and we really didn't have an answer, but I think he actually didn't sit out much in the second half... and he DID commit the (decisive) foul in a 1-point game that wasn't called in the lane in the waning seconds...damnit! Must...let...go...arrrgh!!