There was a great op-ed in the MIT Tech Review a few months back on the question of
why we haven't discovered life (registration required). The author starts from the position that we haven't been visited by extraterrestrials. Given that, he hopes that we don't find evidence of life in the universe.
His thesis hinges on the belief that you can view the development of an interstellar civilization as passing through a series of probability barriers, events that must be successfully traversed for the development of the civilization to continue. This starts at the unicellular phase and goes all the way up through intelligent beings developing the engineering capacity necessary for interstellar travel.
At some point, one of these must act as a Great Filter keeping the _vast_ majority of such civilizations from developing. That filter may be behind us and may make it very unlikely that intelligent life will develop elsewhere or it may be ahead of us, suggesting perhaps that civilizations kill themselves off before going interstellar. If we see evidence of life (especially intelligent life) developing elsewhere, that makes it far more likely that the Great Filter is still in front of us, suggesting that we're statistically predisposed to kill ourselves off at some point in the future.